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▍ ❝ Avoid inappropriate/rude jokes about members..
Why: We want to maintain a safe, friendly environment where everyone feels respected. Jokingly calling someone offensive names like "pedo" or "pervert" can make them uncomfortable, even if it's intended as humor.
Example: It's okay to joke about a fictional character being weird, but it's hurtful when directed at real people.▍ ❝ No NSFW posts, texts, or pictures.
Why: This server includes minors, so explicit content is not appropriate. Not everyone may be comfortable about "jokes," respect others’ boundaries. While the party you're joking about may be comfortable the people around you may not be.
Example: Sharing explicit images, sexual innuendos of characters or people, discussion of acts.▍ ❝ No proshipping (including batcest).
Why: Proshipping can be a sensitive subject, and we want to avoid promoting content that might be disturbing to others.
Example: Posting or supporting fanworks that include incestuous relationships can upset members.▍ ❝ Visit the role-collection channel!
Why: This helps members engage more with the community by customizing their experience and getting notifications they care about.
Example: If you want to get tagged for specific fandom updates or change your name color, visit role-collection.
▍ ❝ Avoid political discussions unless relevant.
Why: Politics can easily become heated and divisive. We want to keep the conversation light and friendly unless it's naturally part of the topic.
Example: If a conversation about a TV show turns into a political debate, it can make others uncomfortable.▍ ❝ Drug talk should be avoided..
Why: While we love the lighthearted air of jokes in the server, constant drug references can make some members uncomfortable, especially since minors are present.
Example: A joke about forgetting something like someone would under a specific influence is not acceptable.▍ ❝ Avoid slur discourse.
Why: Discussions about or use of slurs can make others uncomfortable or feel excluded, so it's better to avoid this topic to keep the space inclusive.
Example: Arguing over whether a certain word is acceptable to say could alienate others. The use of a slur is not only hurtful but harmful, we won't allow that here.▍ ❝ Those 18+ should be mindful of minors.
Why: Since we have younger members, we ask adults to keep conversations about alcohol or mature content to a minimum.
Example: Mentioning you had a drink at dinner is okay, but talking extensively about a night of heavy drinking is inappropriate.
▍ ❝ Keep content in its designated channels.
Why: This keeps the server organized and helps people find content easily.
Example: Posting fanart in the correct channel instead of the general chat ensures that everyone can see it without clutter.▍ ❝ Ask before inviting new members.
Why: This helps us manage the community size and prevent personal conversations from becoming awkward for others.
Example: If a friend wants to join, just ask so we can keep the group feeling close and comfortable.▍ ❝ No mpreg gifs/pictures in general or member-intros.
Why: It’s not content everyone enjoys, so it should be avoided in general spaces.
Example: Posting an mpreg gif in the wrong channel can make members uncomfortable, and we want to keep things fun for everyone.▍ ❝ Mark art with gore as spoilers.
Why: This allows people to avoid seeing disturbing content if they choose to.
Example: If you're sharing fan art with blood or injury, marking it as a spoiler gives others the option to skip it.▍ ❝No hatred of fanon or other fans outside designated spaces.
Why: We want to celebrate creativity and fandoms without judgment.
Example: If someone dislikes a popular fan theory, they should only discuss it in the fandom-rants channel.

Tone tags are shorthand used to clarify the intent behind text-based messages, especially in online conversations where tone can easily be misunderstood. Here’s a guide to common tone tags and how to use them effectively:
/! – Excited
Use: To show enthusiasm.
Example: "I just got the job /!"/a – Alterous
Use: To express feelings of deep emotional attraction that are neither romantic nor platonic.
Example: "I really care about you /a."/ao – An Order
Use: When giving a command or request.
Example: "Please submit your report by tomorrow /ao."/av – A Vent
Use: To indicate that someone is venting emotions.
Example: "I can't believe my day went so badly /av."/ay – At You
Use: When directly addressing someone.
Example: "This message is meant for you specifically /ay."/br – Bragging
Use: To clarify that you’re boasting.
Example: "I just scored 100 on the exam /br."/r – Romantic
Use: To clarify romantic intent.
Example: "I think I’m falling for you /r."/s or /sarc – Sarcastic
Use: To indicate sarcasm.
Example: "Yeah, because that plan will totally work /s."/srs – Serious
Use: To make it clear you’re being sincere.
Example: "We need to talk about this /srs."/t – Teasing
Use: To signal light teasing.
Example: "You always forget your keys /t."/u – Upset
Use: To show that you're bothered by something.
Example: "I’m really upset about what happened today /u."/c – Copypasta
Use: For text that’s copied and shared.
Example: "Here’s that funny text I found online /c."
/calm – Calm
Use: When discussing something calmly.
Example: "I’m really not upset about this /calm."/cb – Clickbait
Use: To label something as a potential exaggeration or attention-grabber.
Example: "You won’t believe what happened next! /cb."/cel – Celebratory
Use: To indicate joy or celebration.
Example: "I just got promoted /cel."/co or /cf – Comforting
Use: To express comfort or offer reassurance.
Example: "You’ll get through this, I promise /co."/curi – Curious
Use: When asking out of curiosity.
Example: "How did that happen? /curi."/f – Fake
Use: To indicate that something is not serious or true.
Example: "Yeah, sure, I totally have superpowers /f."/fam – Familial
Use: To express feelings of familial connection.
Example: "You’re like family to me /fam."/fl – Flirting
Use: To make clear that a message is flirty.
Example: "You look amazing today /fl."/li – Literally
Use: When you want to clarify that you’re being literal.
Example: "I literally just saw him five minutes ago /li."/lu – Little Upset
Use: To show minor frustration.
Example: "I’m a little upset that you didn’t call back /lu."/m – Metaphorically
Use: To indicate that you’re speaking metaphorically.
Example: "I’m drowning in homework right now /m."/p – Platonic
Use: To express that something is friendly and not romantic.
Example: "I love hanging out with you /p."
/g or /gen – Genuine
Use: To emphasize that you’re being sincere.
Example: "I really appreciate your help /gen."/gentle – Gentle
Use: To express that you’re speaking in a soft, gentle manner.
Example: "It’s okay, you’re doing your best /gentle."/gq or /genq – Genuine Question
Use: When asking a sincere question.
Example: "Do you really think that will work? /gq."/gs or /gens – Genuine Suggestion
Use: To clarify that advice or suggestions are sincere.
Example: "You might want to try talking to them directly /gens."/hj – Half Joking
Use: When a statement is partially humorous but still has truth in it.
Example: "I’ll totally fail the test tomorrow /hj."/hyp – Hyperbole
Use: To indicate an exaggerated statement.
Example: "I’ve waited a million years for this /hyp."/info – Informing
Use: To show that you’re sharing factual information.
Example: "The meeting starts at 3 PM /info."/irre – Irrelevant
Use: When something is not related to the current topic.
Example: "By the way, I saw a cute dog today /irre."/j – Joking
Use: To indicate that something is meant humorously.
Example: "Yeah, sure, I’m the best cook in the world /j."/jk – Just Kidding
Use: To clarify that you’re joking.
Example: "You’re fired! /jk."/lh – Light-Hearted
Use: To signal that a comment is playful and not to be taken seriously.
Example: "You’re so bad at this game /lh."

Our Google Form for reporting is a tool designed to provide a safe, anonymous way for individuals to report concerns, issues, or inappropriate behavior. The purpose of this form is to ensure that everyone feels heard and can share any incidents or concerns without the fear of being identified or facing personal consequences. Click here.
▍ ❝ When to Use the Google Form:
Reporting inappropriate behavior: If you witness or experience offensive or harmful behavior, whether it’s bullying, harassment, or abuse.
Example: A member making inappropriate comments towards someone in a group chat.
Reporting rule violations: If someone is not following set rules or guidelines, such as using offensive language or violating a platform’s community standards.
Example: A user consistently posting inappropriate content or spamming.
Reporting safety concerns: If you feel that someone’s behavior may be a threat to themselves or others, or if safety guidelines are being ignored.
Example: Someone making concerning threats or showing signs of needing mental health support.
Flagging misconduct: If you suspect any unethical or dishonest actions, such as cheating, fraud, or dishonesty.
Example: A team member lying about their contributions to a project in order to gain money.
▍ ❝ Key Features:
Anonymous: You do not need to provide your name or any personal details. Your identity will not be tracked or recorded.
Secure and Confidential: All submissions are handled privately, ensuring that no personal information is attached to your report.

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